Just because you understand their pain, it doesn’t mean it’s ok for them to continue to abuse you.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but that’s not how any healthy relationship works. When I say relationship, I mean any relationship not only romantic ones.
While can can be understanding of someone else’s early trauma and childhood. That alone doesn’t excuse them for continuing their abusive behavior in adult hood. That is an adult bully.
Their childhood was filled with abuse? That is not an excuse to abuse.
Guess who else had abuse and trauma in their lives but decided not to reenact their trauma? YOU. So everyone has free will.
No more trauma bonding with unhealthy toxic relationships. There are no excuses. They need to do the work like everyone else. Stop hand holding abusers. They don’t do it for you so don’t do it for them.
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You will never understand the damage you did to someone until the same thing is done to you. That's why I am here.